There is a black cloud hanging over my head as my daughters’ fifth birthday approaches. The fifth birthday signifies that in a few short months my girls will leave the safe haven, magical place we call preschool and transition to Kindergarten. A place that was once considered a simple introduction to a school setting. A couple hours to learn how to play in a group setting, navigate life skills without the safety of a parent present has now moved to a 6+ hour day filled with math problems, pressure to learn to read and negotiating a large school setting. And so I write this post to ask a favor. Please, please remember to Let My Children Be Little.
Please remember that the school environment looks huge and sometimes scary from those big eyes housed in a three foot body. Hold their hand as they navigate this new world.
Please remember that this longer day means less hugs and kisses from me. Above all nurture their hearts with a gentle voice and a friendly smile.
Be patient with their sensitive souls. They have only been on this earth for five years. The world is brand new. There is a lot to absorb each year.
Please let my children be little.
Please make time for play without any other requirements. Let them squeeze and mold playdough, dive their hands into sand, build the tallest block tower and soothe a baby doll.
Please remember to prioritize laughter and singing. The emotional development of my children depends on it.
Please get outside a lot and play. Teach my children that the outdoors, even if it is just to feel the cold breeze on their faces and take a deep breath, is as important (if not more) as learning to spell and count. Play beside my children.
Please let my children be little.
Please listen to all the educational research that exists and be an advocate for my children when I am not present. Please fight to let my girls be little. I am in no rush. They are in no rush.
Please, please let them be little.
I promise you each day their wings and hearts will grow and they will soar.
